With her fiancé included, she has only slept with 2 people. She is getting married this summer. He loves me kindly, but I still don't feel like I'm "married." He is passive about sex, and even if I ask him to do AV-like things, he just brushes it off. If it's an AV, it's not cheating, right? Please. Let me have a lifetime's worth of fucking before I get married.