married for 5 years, no children... our marital relationship was relatively good, and my wife was also at the right age, so I was thinking that maybe it's time for our family to have a child... after consulting with my wife, we decided to spend every month in a cycle of abstaining from sex for a month, accumulating our libido, enduring it, and then releasing the accumulated celibacy life on my wife's ovulation day at the end of the month, and having more intense sex than usual... however, at the end of the following month, I was unable to return home due to work...